I mean I do not have a problem seeing why an older woman would want a younger man. He is eager, fit and looks good. He is also more likely to accommodate you in the way you want, rather than the way he wants. But why does younger men go after an older woman? When I was in my twenties, I can for sure tell you that I did not look twice on an older man.
Yesterday I was out Salsa dancing, and a twenty something boy stopped me with a shower of compliments. I just looked at him smiled, thanked him and moved on. Thinking he was drunk or blind. I continued dancing and in one of my breaks there he was again. His kind words of how I presented myself were flattering. Who does not like to hear how beautiful you suddenly become and how your smile went right to some ones heart? I mean I am human. This time I could clearly see he was not drunk, and I just tilted my head and asked why? He just laughed and said, because I like you and would like to see you again.
I asked him how old he was, and he said 25. Really? I just said I was 38 and waited for his response. He smiled that boyish smile and asked again for the phone number. To seek out an older woman for her experience in the sack is something I can understand. To ask for a date to get to know her is a total different ballgame. There are more reasons than I can count to why that will not work.
What does a twenty five year old guy see in a woman of 38 is still a conundrum to me. When I asked a friend, he just replied sex. Which I can understand, and it could very well be. But then why do all the effort of dating?